Fetishes are Fine

Let me start off by saying that I think Fifty Shades of Grey is a stupid set of books and movies. They take a thing that many people have and oversexualize it. There is nothing wrong with enjoying the cat-o-nine-tails and a little leather as long as it helps keep you and your partner’s love life exciting. Most people who practice these “methods” do not have a sex dungeon. That is crude at best and a ridiculous stereotyping at its worst. But I will go further than a Fifty Shades scenario. I think that most fetishes are perfectly harmless. Whether it be a foot fetish, an anime cosplay fetish, or a fetish where you like an earlobe massage. It does not mean that you like to smell people’s shoes or you can only have sex with someone dressed as a Pokémon or that you have to have your ear licked before you can “get in the mood”. I mean, there will always be outliers, but for most people it is just a little quirk about themselves that they only share with their true significant other and something that a few people never delve into at all. I think as long as all parties are agreed, then enjoy your fetish. Revel in the fact that we live in a place that allows every person to enjoy life the way they want, within reason. And for the love of Pete, stop reading books like Fifty Shades of Grey that only set up false expectations and perpetuate a gross stereotype. But that is just one man’s opinion. Thanks for listening to me ramble. I appreciate it. See you next time.